letter from the scorned...

Today, I am going to share a very special letter which inspired me a lot. Cheers to all single moms like me!....♥


"You might wonder who I am. Let's skip that part. What I have to say is more important than knowing who both of us are. Surprisingly, the fact that we don't know each other at all, making a note for you comes with neither effort nor uncertainty. After all, I am one of those who are not afraid in speaking their thoughts.

First things first, I met your husband in a very circumstantial incident. A little of everything namely peer pressure, fun's sake, unwinding moments and etc basically initiated a relative whirlwind connection between the two of us. Excuse me for being blatantly honest, but that's all there is to it. It wasn't your typical meeting; in fact it's highly unconventional. I will not elaborate on the details; feel free to ask your husband about it. I'll cross my fingers and hope he will tell you the truth but that is highly improbable. I tell you, he is the most infantile person I had ever met in my lifetime. Wait, I retract that, this one’s better: NO negative adjective would ever be appropriate to describe him at all! I mean, who would have thought that he would fool around saying he is SINGLE and UNATTACHED, when in fact he has an impregnated fiancée at that time? What kind of a person is that? I was totally totally innocent about it. He was quite a player, I tell you. Worse, after the trust I gave him on that night of intoxication, he still toed the line and did it anyway. Can you believe it? It was January of last year when he gave me rundown of what he wants to happen. Live together, get a nanny when the baby comes around and get married. Settle down cause he’s not getting any younger and lies lies lies. Only to find out that he is in fact, tied up to you! And worse, you just gave birth and your baby is like 3 months??? You might be shocked if I will tell you all the details of his recent activity.

Now you are probably asking: what is this girl trying to drive at? What is her point? Why? Good question.The year is coming to an end. Another opportunity to start a fresh page. I've thought a million times and came up with a plausible decision for both sides involved. To finally let go of all the hurt, pain vulnerabilities and a whole lot of more that you can ever imagine. First step, to let out all of these stuck up emotions. To come right out clean for the upcoming year. I want you to be aware someone is vexed at your husband. I want you to know that I do not have any reason to feel sorry at all. I was made to believe that he is not laden with any responsibilities for that matter. Maybe the only fault you can see in me is that I was vulnerable. I was completely blind of what's going on. What I was feeling right now and what i had been through was unimaginable.

Then lately, I saw your daughter. What a striking resemblance with my little bug except for the color though. My little bug's hide takes after me. Little black beauty in its entire splendor. I realized that on a positive note, I am blessed. Blessed to have my daughter. Blessed despite the hardships of being a single mum struggling to juggle between career and child-rearing. She's a bundle of joy. Smart-ass you might say, takes after me, indeed! She is 7 months and 11 days to date (her half-sister just months older, can you believe that?) and she says MAMA when I come home from work. Remember I asked you how many teeth does your kiddo have? Well, mine has 1 and another 1popping soon! A blessing indeed! And then I saw you...Surprisingly the emotion least expected rose out from me: PITY. I pity the fact that you are tied up to this imbecile kind of a guy. But then love moves in mysterious ways. Maybe Divine Intervention will come and he will realize what a moron he is and start straightening his life and act like a real honest husband and father. I realized that I should not feel sorry for myself at all. I 'was' a victim. Notice the apostrophe in there? I can go ahead and forget everything. What makes me sad is that your husband is such a fool to play around with other people’s emotions. I’m so glad that I never ended up with him. True example of BLESSING in DISGUISE. A man like him can never be trusted. Playing around pretending to be single while his wife is pregnant and even until his baby comes around and yet three months old? I thought to myself: I pity the wife.. She is not even aware how despicable her husband is. Trust, as it were is very important in a relationship. That’s one virtue your husband most certainly does not have and least of all is not even aware of. He does NOT deserve ME at all! I deserve someone way way better than him. Someone more intellectual, professional and respectable.

As I said, I have no reason to be sorry about. I was a victim and is lucky enough to be free in the end. Now that I have said my piece I know that I can leave it from here and let go of the past. Best of all, I have my darling little Emee whom I have a lifetime to spend with. Life is a summary of mixed emotions, beauty and madness, spices to deal with but summing up everything, she is the best thing that came up in this entire hubbub. So, I pray that your family will fare well in all future predicaments. I pray that your daughter will grow up into a wonderful lady and I pray that you will come to realize an idyllic family"